19 sexiest gifts for surprising your partner this Valentine's Day

Lovehoney Glow-in-the-Dark Deluxe Mini Massage Wand Vibrator

By now, you probably know what a wand vibrator looks like and what it’s good for–a lot. Gift your lover a new, compact version adorned with magical glow-in-the-dark stars to really spark up the night and show them just how much you care.

Lelo Hex Condoms

Whether you’re still using condoms for birth control in a monogamous relationship, hooking up with multiple folks, or practicing polyamory, condoms might be an amazingly thoughtful gift to let a partner unwrap so they’re not stuck running to the drugstore in the heat of the moment. Indulge them in a luxurious brand like Lelo, whose Hex condoms feature a signature hexagonal structure which increases strength and allows for an incredibly thin feel.

Under the Bed Restraint System

Stay ready to get freaky when you give your sweetheart this handy system of straps and restraints meant to live under your bed year-round. Reviewers say the setup is a breeze, plus you can use the straps in a variety of ways as you become more experienced in bondage. Think of it as an investment in your sexual future.

Shiny Black Gloves

With a slick feel and shiny look, these gloves mimic the look of the much more expensive latex versions, but they are affordable and less maintenance for you or your partner. If the shiny look is a little too intimidating, try these sparkly fishnet gloves to ease into things.

Edible Body Play Paints

They’re a little bit goofy, sure, but these edible body paints will undoubtedly inspire you to touch, explore, and be creative with each other’s bodies regardless of how hard you may laugh doing so. The point of sex is to have fun, right? It makes a great stocking stuffer, and no, we will not make the obvious joke here.

Customizable Luxury Hand-Crafted Italian Leather Personalized Choker

Etsy is a great resource for custom leather goods, this collar included. It’s great for beginner wearers who aren’t quite ready for a full on harness set or posture collar, and you get up to eight letters that show off your partner’s favorite nickname.

Vesper Vibrator Necklace

A classic in the Goop catalog is this stunning gold necklace that looks like any other classy accessory but transforms into a tiny bullet vibrator for after-dinner activity. This quite toy is stainless steel coated in 24k gold, waterproof (aka easy to clean), and has four speeds and two modes to optimize pleasure the way your partner likes it.

Couples Camera Set

Looking to dabble in some sexy photography but not quite ready to commit to having digital copies of your birthday suit out in the wild? Snag this camera and a year’s worth of adventure dates that will encourage you to get out of your comfort zone and explore the world around you while discovering fun new sides to your partner.

Ssense White Sex Towel

Everyone has “that” towel or rag or old tee shirt for post-coital cleanup, but a nice gesture this holiday season would be to upgrade to the plush towel so you’re both feeling cared for after your next mattress session.

Phreak Dovah

For the lover who’s tried it all, give the gift of creativity with this truly out-there dildo that comes in a variety of sizes, starting at “Extra Small” (6.2 inches) for just over $50 and increasing in size until you reach the girthy Goliath (a whopping 14.5 inches) for $186.85. It comes in dozens of color and print combinations, and you can customize the density for a softer or firmer ride.

Heart Throb Rechargeable Intimate Massager

You can never have too many vibrators, especially in fun and interesting shapes and sizes. Give your lover a seasonally appropriate and very cute one with this Heart Throb massager that's waterproof, rechargeable, and comes in soft silicone that feels great against the body.

Creepy Yeyha Maliya Harness ( Black + Silver )

If your partner isready for a full harness, one of your best bets is to hit independent designer Creepy Yeyha’s store for a whole range of stunning wearables that comes in a variety of classic and creative colors and both gold and silver-tone metals to please everyone’s personal aesthetic.

Sleep Keyhole Dress

It’s a little 1990s, very sensual, and the size range extends from XXS to 4x. We love the near-universally flattering "wood" color option, but a handful of others are available should you prefer.

Tom Ford Cotton Boxer Brief Two Pack

Masc folks want nice underthings, too, so snag these fancy-pants Tom Ford boxers to truly treat your honey to something sweet.

Send Moods Candle Set

Influencer, makeup artist, business woman, and all-around force of nature Jackie Aina may not have created these candles with only sex on the mind, but the humor and incredible scents will certainly put you in the right mindset to enjoy your evening however you see fit. Buy now before they sell out again.

Bangover Prevention Kit™

We don’t need to spell out what a bangover is for you to understand its meaning, but let these products do the talking anyway. In this sexual wellness kit, you’ll receive:

–12-pack of Lovability branded condoms

–”Your Vajesty” compact mirror for checking down there before sex

–two one-ounce tubes of HALLELUBEYAH

–a “No Fuckboy Zone” door hanger

–Quickies toilettes

And plenty more to make sure the scene is set for your next naughty rendezveous. This also makes a great Galentine's Day gift for your girlfriends!

Fringed Beauty Chemise Set

This chemise drapes ever-so-beautifully on all types of curves, so make your partner feel drop dead gorgeous when they slip into this after your romantic dinner for two.

Rear Assets Small Jewelled Heart Metal Butt Plug

With a nice weight, beginner-to-intermediate size, and gorgeous silver and pink color combo, this is an ideal butt plug for the curiously minded and experienced users alike. If the colorful appearance isn’t quite what you’re looking for, there’s also the more simple black silicone version.

Multifunctional Weightless Position Bouncer Chair

This product is great for anyone, especially those who might be dealing with disabilities or just a lack of thigh strength to keep the mojo going while on top. Since this won’t be inserted or otherwise need to be body-safe, skip the fancy online boutiques that are selling these for an astronomical markup and order direct from Wish.