If you have scrolled your merry way through Twitter in the last couple of weeks, it’s likely you have come across people saying “the feminine urge to” – followed by something relatable, like drinking a coffee.
According to Know Your Meme, the relatable tag was first used in 2009 but it surged in popularity in the last few weeks, popping up on Twitter and TikTok left, right and centre as people share things they believe to be universally feminine.
Of course, some of the memes are stereotypes, reductive and basically old fashioned in acting like men act a certain way, and women act another.
But – memes being memes – they don’t have to be and “the feminine urge to” has become a way of introducing any broadly relatable statement applicable to any gender.
With that all taken care of, here are 16 of the best memes and tweets from the “feminine urge” genre.
Being alive in 2021 is spending too much on coffee to swig while roaming around aimlessly on an aesthetic walk:
the feminine urge to spend £3 on a silly little latte every time you set foot outside— ellie redpath 🧚✨ (@ellie redpath 🧚✨) 1636020815
When you’re on that walk and you need to cross the road, it can be pretty embarrassing:
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Of course, that can be pretty tiring so you might then get the feminine urge to have a nap:
the feminine urge to take a nap after doing nothing all day— Dot Dot (。+﹏+。) (@Dot Dot (。+﹏+。)) 1635897975
Or a bath or shower, followed by some intense zoning out:
the feminine urge to lay in bed wrapped in a towel for hours after a shower— the hot nri (@the hot nri) 1636267825
Sometimes the urge to overachieve is strong...
The feminine urge to achieve everything in your life before 25— krappy patty (@krappy patty) 1635935156
So you better get a new diary to document your achievements:
the feminine urge to buy a new journal every time a fresh life phase hits— negine jasmine (@negine jasmine) 1636050588
When disaster strikes, dyeing your hair can often feel like the only solution:
And sometimes you just feel like acting like a d***:
Or doing nothing at all:
the feminine urge to https://t.co/S4CvLFxORZ— hunter harris (@hunter harris) 1636686143
Since the meme has taken off, it has evolved, as memes do, and people have also posted “masculine urges” which include cooking meat, replying to texts badly and spending a lot of the time on the toilet, apparently (which isn’t recommended, according to one doctor):
the masculine urge to respond with “fair enough” to everything— aryan (@aryan) 1636626955
the masculine urge to sit on the toilet and disassociate for 45 minutes— Haley OC (@Haley OC) 1636217255
recently fallen victim to the masculine urge to cook massive pieces of meat https://t.co/yZQBzu55EU— MY DOG DIABETIC (@MY DOG DIABETIC) 1635977179
the masculine urge to respond with “damn that sucks”— kirby (@kirby) 1636516626
And there are also loads of popular “the non-binary urge to” tweets, aswell:
the non binary urge to be fine as hell— Seven ୨୧ (@Seven ୨୧) 1636330278
So that, in a nutshell, is “the feminist urge to”. We hope that all makes sense:
The feminine urge to add “if that makes sense lol” after eloquently explaining something.— caitlin is cold 🤧 (she/her) (@caitlin is cold 🤧 (she/her)) 1636319741