There are plenty of reasons why first dates don’t blossom into romance, but some people’s standards really do seem quite bizarre.
One Twitter user, called Jacques, has shared his own experience of baffling rejection, posting a screen shot of a message he’d received from a (now former) love interest.
It read: “Hey man, sorry for not messaging until now. I enjoyed our date last week but when you said the phrase: ‘put my thinking cap on’ it kinda gave me the ick so I wasn’t really interested in pursuing things.”
They then had the cheek to ask: “Also, do you know of any, like, soul-funk hip hop disco kind of vibes DJs in Manchester?”
ah right ok then 🙂 https://t.co/cpamBahE3p— jacques (@jacques) 1629657873
Jacques captioned the tweet simply: “Ah right ok then”.
The post racked up more than 128,800 likes and 5,200 retweets in just three days, as fellow Twitter offered their take on the date’s approach:
@R3belGG @flamencolambada Honestly people are so dumb and shallow. My partner says stupid stuff all the time and I… https://t.co/fPo8tWUEst— 𝐿𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝐿𝑎𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝐿𝑜𝑎𝑡ℎ𝑒💙 (@𝐿𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝐿𝑎𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝐿𝑜𝑎𝑡ℎ𝑒💙) 1629704007
@flamencolambada “Kinda gave me the ick” is a weirder phrase than “putting my thinking cap on”.— david (@david) 1629667965
@flamencolambada "Hey our date was cool but you said one thing that's totally normal, so I don't think I'm gonna be… https://t.co/unK0fD92UW— Eric (@Eric) 1629676120
@flamencolambada This is honestly the worst. I cannot believe people like this exist. I am actually astounded.— Scot (@Scot) 1629658405
My dating life in a nutshell https://t.co/JuEHvTEjQh— Ben (@Ben) 1629843948
Jacques later added that the man he had gone on a date with had waited 10 days before sending that terrible response. He also said he hadn’t replied but then changed his mind after one person offered him a very funny suggestion for a response:
@flamencolambada Please say you replied with “I’ll have to put my thinking cap on”— Kris (@Kris) 1629658088
Amazingly, his date then blocked him, Jacques said:
@deliciouslykris I think I’ve been blocked hahahaha https://t.co/PU3CBQQ96v— jacques (@jacques) 1629659130
Seems like dating after the pandemic has got a whole lot more brutal.