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Narjas Zatat
Mar 04, 2019
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Terry Crews has been championing conversations surrounding male mental health. However, he has recently apologised after he landed himself in hot water following a string of tweets that seemed, to his critics, to "gender love".
In a now-deleted tweet, he said that children without both maternal and paternal parents are "severely malnourished".
The Brooklyn Nine-Nine actor began by criticising a New York Times op-ed titled 'Why Does Obama Hate Black Boys?', arguing that such a piece should have been written by a man, not a woman.
Sharing the piece on Twitter, he wrote:
If a successful black man can’t advise the black male youth of the next generation, who will?
THE STREET. That’s who.
In a string of follow-up tweets, he added:
Another thing that bothers me is that this OP-ED was written by a WOMAN about how how [sic] boys should be taught to grow into successful young men. How would she know?
MEN NEED TO HOLD OTHER MEN ACCOUNTABLE.
He continued: "You can speak with us – just not FOR US. There is a big difference."
Following backlash for his tweet, he picked up the conversation over the weekend:
I’ve reiterated many times that same sex couples and single parents can successfully raise a child. But I believe paternal AND maternal love are like vitamins and minerals to humanity. No matter where you get that paternal and maternal love. MY purpose is to give paternal love.
In response, Twitter user @jakesherondale pointed out that "love is not gendered. A child will not starve with only one gender loving them".
To that, he wrote: “But they will be severely malnourished.”
Though he later deleted the tweet, people online have launched into a debate about what he said.
Some people disagreed.
Dear @terrycrews - My 12 year old twins are not ‘severely malnourished’ Please stop encouraging the bullying of… https://t.co/2mQfG1EisX— Linda Riley (@Linda Riley) 1551639846
@terrycrews This ain't it, fam.— César Vargas (@César Vargas) 1551065584
.@terrycrews my children will not be 'malnourished' because they have two mums. they will benefit greatly from the… https://t.co/WxhS2UYVns— gender who 2022 (@gender who 2022) 1551478264
what the fuck... my mom gave me a name too. my mom gave me her story too. my mom gives me support and confidence. t… https://t.co/SCdNVk0GKG— captain lesbian ⧗ AOT SPOILERS (@captain lesbian ⧗ AOT SPOILERS) 1551477120
@terrycrews Terry. A lot of people who aren't men are raising them. Also we bring a pov y'all don't have as being o… https://t.co/KWYvgJrbTQ— Raen 🌦 (@Raen 🌦) 1551059066
Others didn't think the backlash was warranted.
This attempt to make men inconsequential is not only harmful it is erasing the beautiful part of childhood developm… https://t.co/pO2F2lxbJh— Spilled T (@Spilled T) 1551545894
@astdelagrange @nyc_oz Disgusting how? He thinks kids do better with a maternal and a paternal influence. That’s not a bad thing.— JT (@JT) 1551695437
@LindaRiley8 @terrycrews He definitely didn't encourage bullying at all. You took his words and misconstrued them e… https://t.co/OyK2wErpzL— Jim (@Jim) 1551646460
That is not what he said. And if you read to comprehend instead of to find offense you’d realize that. @terrycrews… https://t.co/cABTOBDG9F— yvette nicole brown (@yvette nicole brown) 1551635617
@terrycrews ++ that I had my Dad or Step Dad here to guide me. Maybe things would’ve turned out a tad bit different… https://t.co/XnNmTwABHm— ∗∘∹﹔Daya ⤷ not @Zendaya (@∗∘∹﹔Daya ⤷ not @Zendaya) 1551511693
After days of back-and-forth with both supportive fans and critics, he eventually invited people who didn't like him to utilise the unfollow button.
And Terry went on to make another "controversial" statement: "As a human being there are things you can only get from your mother."
No one has to follow me. If you have problems with my tweets you are welcome to mute, unfollow, block or delete me.… https://t.co/ocKPiPonp6— terry crews (@terry crews) 1551595643
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