These are the signs your partner is cheating, according to the cheaters themselves

We all get paranoid sometimes, it’s normal.

Every now and then, you do start to worry if your partner is not being 100 per cent faithful to you. It’s the little things that set off alarm bells. Whether it's frequent late nights, unanswered calls, or occasional strange behaviour.

It’s enough to get your mind wandering.

But how can you tell? Well, you go to the horse’s mouth.

Victoria Milan is a website for people looking to hook up for extramarital affairs. And they polled their members on common signs were that they had been cheating on their significant others.

Here are the top ten things they said to look out for:

Being extra careful with their privacy (mobile phone, email)

Keeping distance from their partner and avoiding eye contact

Looking too good: well-dressed and extra-worried about their appearance

Not behaving naturally: not being concerned about family matters, being focused on other things

Showering at strange hours or putting clothes directly in the laundry

Forgetting their alibi and mixing their stories up

Being extra loving and kind because they feel guilty

Having lipstick marks or perfume on their clothes

Going to bed right away and making excuses to not have sex

Keeping bills or invoices of dates

Victoria Milan founder and CEO said: Founder and CEO of Victoria Milan, Sigurd Vedal, has said:

It takes one to know one: and our cheaters know exactly which of their behaviours will indicate they are having an affair – because they are adopting these exact behaviours themselves. Our research shows they’re extremely good at it too as very few of our cheaters get caught.

Worried yet?

HT Her

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